My New Year Wish ..

" Earth will be a heaven for women to live, without fear, violance and rape"

source : www.theatlantic.com

PS: Dedicated for Miss "Damini" a Delhi gang rape victim , that die in 29 December 2012 because of sex violance. Rest In Peace Miss.

Over load (Day 2 collecting my thought @Yogyakarta)

Afternoon talk (Day 1 collecting my thought @Yogyakarta)

Shinta - Sita (सीता)

Shinta-sita is the wife of Rama, the seventh avatāra of Vishnu in the Hindu tradition, Based on ramayana story, She is esteemed as the standard setter for wifely and womanly virtues for all Hindu women.

Why? Too long reason, I think im one women that not too agree with this part of epics story Ramayana. You will know ?

I will tell you. Rama and Shinta is a couple, but something happen, the evil character RAHWANA-Ravana kidnap sintha-sita from her stupid husband Rama, from several battles, Rama success to retake shinta-sita again and defeating Ravana kingdom.

Its sad story because, after Rama win the battle , he not come to take back again Shinta. He ask assistan hanuman / anoman to go and take Shinta back, make Shinta very disappointed. I know how Shinta feel, when some evil hurt her I think she need her husband to support, but the fact? Rama just need pride of battle and forget the essence why he start the battle. Its man ambition.

Than Shinta agree back to rama even by hanuman hands, Second sad story again. After wake up from scared dream , she get the bad dream again. The husband Rama doubt about the Shinta pureness. Rama think long time Shinta stay with the evil. Damn..!!!!!

Shinta lost words , she confused how she explain to rama, so without thinking she says, I will burn my self, if im burn im lier and not pure, but if the fire cant burn my body and soul so im still pure and rahwana never touch me even a millimeter.

Shinta jump in to the fire. And miracle happen, agni the god fire help her, and shinta still alive, fire cant bur her body.

Shinta saved and the stupid husband Rama accept her again but Shinta always get bad dream in long life. Because after rama not believe, now all people in kingdom say not believe with Shinta pureness. Oh Damn, Shinta hurt again, rama ask her to go out and stay in forest, isolation area. And Rama never know when Shinta go, she pregnant Rama child.

Even sad, she walk and some guru-sadhu help her, give home and place to stay….and continued with many sad story again about Shinta life. And I will become too sad if continued this story.

Shinta is rigid , brave and loyal women type, I like what she do, but I think she choose wrong husband, For me Rama is not match with Shinta. Because good women for good man. Are rama good man? The answer is no.

I proud with the evil rahwana because he still keep shinta pure even he can do anything.Yes in epic story, women always in second place. Lost and hurt.

Are you agree with me?

When the culture kill a women

Culture is the highest value in society, religion, and human relations that make groups and give big influences to all sides of life. Culture is created when the authority says that some “customs” will be valid for all or part of people that live in a community.
In all areas we know that authority exist in mans hands. Because they have emense power to make decisions. And women fall into the second position. Its why all cultures are just concerned with a men. leaving a woman as an object in the community that must depend on mans interest.
And it has been this way since a long long time ago. Women have not had choice to change this condition. They suffer and stand in this authority. They will get serious punishment when they try to leave it. It’s why many women still live under culture attack and silent, not fighting against it to get better conditions.
So this condition gets well known. And time after time, its looks like an old tradition. And all unwilling to leave it. Without logic to the real fact. Just strong limitations. In many places They do not have opportunities to make progress in their own life. All their life arranged by culture.
They know, if they still accept all the illogical value they will head in the direction of destruction. But they do not have enough power to change it. Why? Because many women live with bad quality of education. They do not know how to change this condition.
How long many women still live in this area. Killing and No independence as a humans???
There needs to be a big social revolution. To refresh all systems and make a new form of brain storming. Replace old values with new values that care about the women’s lives.